"How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You
-- and Give You The World!"
National Relationship Expert Shows Women The Secret to Understanding Men -- and using it to your
by Bob Grant, L.P.C. - "The Relationship Doctor"
it comes to your relationships with men, which of the following do you find
yourself saying? (Check
the ones that apply to you.)
didn't he call?"
can I find the right man?
do I always date losers?
doesn't he love me anymore?
am I doing wrong?
do some women have great relationships with men -- and mine are always dull,
unfulfilling and boring?
only I could understand men...."
If you checked one or more of the above,
then the following article may be the most
eye-opening one you'll ever read.
The important thing to remember is that you're not alone. Most women
-- whether single or married -- have
asked themselves these kinds of questions. In my 16 years of relationship
counseling, I've found that the reason women have these concerns is because
they simply don't understand men.
Did you know ... that you as a woman, by virtue of your femininity,
have in your hands the delicious power to make a man fall in love
with you, influence a man to your way of thinking, bring him to his knees,
make him want to spend his life with you -- and want to fulfill your every
Yes, it's true! And the best part is that you can do it easily and
effortlessly by being yourself -- and NOT shaping yourself
into someone you're not just to keep your man interested. I'll give you
solid proof of this in a moment.
When you read this article in its entirety, you'll discover how to
tap into the power that resides within you --
whether you want to revolutionize your dating life, get married
or spark the fire within your marriage.
I found myself single again after being divorced in 1999, I dove into
a series of relationships with men that started out strong, but
eventually fizzled out. I didn't know what I was doing wrong.
I've read dozens of relationship books, but The Woman Men
Adore...and Never Want to Leave
is the first one that really made me understand men -- and use that
understanding to create and sustain a loving relationship, and
become a woman that a man
loves, cherishes, and never want to part with. I only wish
I had known about Bob's proven method years ago. I could have had
less heartaches and more fulfilling and enduring relationships.
And I might have saved my marriage as well. This book is mandatory
reading for all women!"
Maria V., Beverly Hills, California
Who Am I --
and Why Should You Believe Me?
name is Bob Grant. I've been a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist,
and relationship coach for 16 years. The majority of my clients are
women, who have sought my help in creating successful, satisfying, and
fulfilling love relationships by simply understanding men.
More than the certificates and licenses I've accumulated over the years, I
take most pride in the number of wedding invitations I receive from
my clients who've found wonderful relationships as a result of my advice.
I've also saved dozens of marriages from disaster, dissolution -- or just
That's why I'm called "The Relationship Doctor."
I have the
prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting
relationships that have lost their spark.
The method I'm about to reveal to you is not based on theory,
guesswork or the "psycho-babble" that's disseminated by pop psychologists,
self-help books and women's magazines. Unlike other resources that claim to
help you understand men, my strategy is based on real-life feedback
from thousands of real-life women who tried my method and found that
it produced a dramatic difference in their relationships with men.
Now, you can find out what my method can do for you.
Whether you're ...
a single woman who wants
to attract the right man -- or add romance to your dating life
a woman who dates frequently,
but finds it hard to sustain a relationship with a man;
a woman who wants to
be married but can't seem to persuade the man in your life to pop the question; or
a married woman who wants to
spark the fire within your marriage and enjoy deeper intimacy with your husband
... you'll discover
the secret that will make you radiate like a warm and glowing campfire --
and give you an aura that men will find absolutely irresistible.
"Bob... you've done a wonderful job
of explaining what it is that makes some women exceptionally
attractive from a man's perspective and why most men adore being
around these kind of women. I especially liked Chapter 10, and
agree with you that if more couples understood the differences between
an Introverted vs Extroverted personality type, a lot of the
misunderstandings between men and women could be avoided. You can be
sure that I'm going to recommend your book to all our current and
future Match-Marks.com members."
-- Jill Montgomery,
Chief Matchmaker for Match-Marks.com
Woman Men Adore ... and Never Want to Leave
Have you ever met the kind of woman ...
men fall hopelessly in love
men want to spend all their
whom men want to pleaseand do anything for
who brings out the romantic and passionate side of a man;
to whom men want to give
quality, trait, or personality does this woman have that attracts men
like a magnet, makes men powerless in her hands, and makes them want to
spend their lives with her?
I've personally met many women like this -- and here's the
startling observation I've made: These women are not necessarily
the most beautiful, the tallest, the smartest, the one with the most
gorgeous hair, sexy legs or the most ample breasts, as one might think!
A look back in history reveals the likes of ... ... homely divorcée Wallis Simpson, for whom the Duke of
Windsor abdicated the throne of England; ... the early-twentieth-century French writer Colette
(described as having
a "frightful" appearance), who
managed to have numerous male conquests; ... Martha
Gellhorn, the plain-looking scholar for whom Ernest Hemingway became love-sick and never recovered; ...Mumtaz, for whom the Emperor Shah Jahan built the Taj
Mahal; and ... Kate Middleton, who won the heart of Prince William.
And then, of course, there's Susan Levin, who managed to capture the heart of the famous actor, Robert Downey Jr (Iron Man). To this day he speaks about her in a way that conveys how much he adores her and would do anything to keep her by his side.
These kinds of women know the secret to creating magic with men. And here's
the good news for you -- if you're like most women who struggle with
relationship challenges. The ability
to create magic with men is NOT really magic at all.It’s a skill which can be learned
by any woman -- and that includes you!
Before I tell you how to acquire that secret skill (which already resides
inside you, though dormant), let me ask you a question:
Why Do Most Women
Struggle in Their Relationships with Men?
There are many reasons why women have relationship challenges, but as I
mentioned before, the main reason is that women simply don't understand
men. If a woman really understood men, she'd know how to
effortlessly attract men like a magnet, make men powerless in
her hands, have them treat her like a queen, and give her everything her
The main obstacle women face in their effort to understand men is that they
turn to all the wrong things: They seek advice from their girlfriends,
who are just as clueless as they are in figuring men out; and they
read dime-store relationship advice from women's magazines.
you're like most women, you probably love talking to your girlfriends about
your relationship troubles, and -- yikes! -- asking them for relationship
advice. Unless your girlfriend happens to be a professional relationship
advisor, who has counseled many couples towards successful relationships --
and unless she herself has a successful relationship with a man (very
important!) -- it's unwise to take relationship advice from your
girlfriend (or your mother, sister, cousin or aunt, for that matter).
By all means, seek the listening ear of a girlfriend if you simply want to
unburden -- and if talking to your girlfriend makes you feel better.
But always remember that talking to your girlfriends (as depicted accurately
in the once-popular Sex and the City TV series), fosters deeper and
better friendships with your girlfriends -- but does nothing to
improve your relationships with men.
Now, don't get me wrong. Some of your girlfriends might indeed have the
wisdom to give you good advice -- but that advice will almost always be
based only on their ownlimited experience and observation.
Just because your girlfriend has had an experience similar to yours doesn't
mean her advice applies to your situation.
I chuckle every time I remember the story of a woman who spent hours on the
phone with her girlfriend discussing why her boyfriend was giving her the
silent treatment, and what she might have done to provoke it, and what she
could do to get him talking again. All the while, her boyfriend was just
not in a talkative mood because he was worrying that the carburetor in his
car wasn't working right!
Just goes to show how little women know about men!
Everything You Ever Learned About How
to Attract and Keep a Man
another insidious thing masquerading as relationship advice for women
-- and that is, women's magazines. Women's magazines teach women how
to look, be and act around men -- and only serve to impress other women,
propagate poor self-image, and show women how to "hook" a man by being
everything but themselves. Sadly, most of the relationship tips that
women's magazines give were written by women for women -- and they
don't enable women to understand men at all.
What if I told you that you could make a man adore you just by being
Yes, you don't have to be anything but yourself. There's just one
condition. You also have to understand what a man wants.
Will Giving a Man What He Wants
Get You What You Want?
My answer is a resounding "Yes!"
the big secret. Men want to be enraptured by a woman. They
may not admit it openly, but they want to be lured, finessed, bewitched,
possessed and seduced by a woman -- and they don't mind surrendering to her
siren maneuverings and
be rendered powerless by her. A man would gladly give anything to the
woman who can make him feel good.
Unfortunately, most women simply don't know how to make a man feel good.
Believe it or not, the majority of women have the mistaken notion
that learning a few sexual tricks and bedroom stunts from
Cosmo and the Kama Sutra, or cooking him sumptuous meals
"better than Mama ever made" ought to do the trick -- and their man would
stay devoted to them forever.
That's an outdated mode of thinking derived from the old wives' tale that
says "The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach" -- or his
crotch, in most instances. If that were true, then sex therapists,
prostitutes and professional chefs would have the best marriages, wouldn't
There's so much more to making a man feel good than meets the eye.
Seduction is 99% Mental Sorcery
While a woman's sexual skills and good cooking are always appreciated by
men, seduction is 99% mental sorcery.
Over the years, I've wanted to teach this and other powerful relationship
principles to more than just the female clients who are able to travel to my
office in Georgia for relationship counseling.
So I devised a way to share my relationship
principles so that women all over the world can learn to understand
men and develop successful relationships with them – no matter where they
So I've written a 115-page e-book titled The
Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave, wherein I reveal all the
details of how you can entice a man, make him fall in love with you, and
give you the world -- just by using closely guarded secrets that I've
compiled over the last 16 years.
For example, on page 110,
I reveal a very powerful technique that every woman (who wants to
know how to inspire her man to consistently search for ways to please her)
can use. It works like a charm. All you have to do is say 3 sentences
to him -- I give the exact word-for-word "script". Once you say those
words, it's like effortlessly casting a spell over him. He won't be
able to get you off his mind -- and will look for every opportunity to
Sound to good to be true? Read a
from "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave"
Before I tell you how to acquire that
(which already resides
inside you, though dormant), let me ask you a question:
Wouldn't you want to know what those 3 sentences are?
5 things men cravethat
women don't know about -- Nothing in the world is more exhilarating for a
man than these -- and if you give them to him, you'll have his
undying devotion. (See pages 106-110)
The main reason
why men choose to get married
(or stay married) to a particular woman. This can be summed up
in 5 words. Carve these words in your heart and never forget them.
(See page 20)
The powerful ability
a woman possesses that causes men to be interested in her -- even if she
isn’t the tallest, smartest, or the most beautiful woman around. Not even
looks, sex appeal, money, power, or prestige rate as high as this ability
when it comes to making
yourself irresistible to men -- and you can easily have
it with a little practice. (See page 33)
Do you know what's the No. 1 "man repellant" in existence?
Ignore this and you'll make him feel incapable of being your hero.
This could very well be a major reason as to why "he's just not that into
you." (See page 27)
How to speak in a
way that hypnotizes a man into feeling safe so that he'll allow you
to influence him with no resistance. (See page 16)
How to be yourself and
still be loved by a man – I'll show you how to find the courage to
be imperfect and be loved in spite of it -- and teach you how to
remove the “layers’ that keep a man from knowing and loving you.
(See page 64)
Pinpoint exactly what
you’re doing that makes men NOT want to be close to you. How to
tell if you're unknowingly sending off a signal that says "You can
only get this close, and that's it." (See page
How to make a man do what
you want him to do – and make him think it was his idea!
(See page 23).
How to influence or shape
your man's opinion with the power of words -- even if he doesn’t see the
need to change. How you influence him will affect his behavior toward you
-- for better or for worse. (See page 97)
the secret to making a man feel understood by you. Master this
secret and you can ask your man for almost anything, and he’d be willing
to give it. (See page 94)
How to use your femininity to disarm a man,
break down his defenses -- and turn him into a caring and sensitive man
you've always wanted. (See page 32)
How to master the art of
perfect timing to get what you want in a relationship.
(See pages 94-96)
Why you should not
compete with your man -- and when to allow your man to be your
superior. Even when you're capable of being his equal, trying to be
his equal in certain areas will drive him away, and won’t lead to the
intimacy you crave. (See page 73)
How to use your innate
feminine power to make a
man powerless to resist you. This is what separates women that
men fall in love with from those that men ignore and take for granted.
(See page 15)
The things a woman does
that makes a man shut down and feel alienated from her. If
you're doing these things, you may be sabotaging your relationship.
(See page 34)
The kiss of death in a relationship --
and how to avoid it. (See page 96)
ultimate secret that will give you more
influence with men
than you've ever imagined. This might sound silly -- but it works
like magic when it comes to persuading men to your way of thinking.
(See page 78)
part of your body that serves as a
which men want to be held captive to. No, it's not your breasts,
legs or derrière. Use this part of your body to the hilt and you'll have
him wrapped around your little finger. (See
How to make a man feel
cherished by you, and as a result, he will want to spend more time with
you and want to be around you more. (See page 94)
Why some women drive away
good men or continually pick losers – How to tell the difference between
impulses and feelings, so that you'll never again allow the
intensity of impulses guide you to a poor choice in men.
(See page 38)
How to be strong by being
vulnerable - Women who know how to use vulnerability as a relationship
device are always astonished by the impact they make on a man.
(See page 10)
How to determine if you
have “barbed wire around your heart” – and how to let that defensive
weapon down and allow a man to love you. (See page
How to take advantage of
a man's natural predisposition to make him do everything
possible to make you happy. (See page 72)
What do men really
find attractive about a woman? A survey of hundreds of men reveals that
it's not a woman's breasts, legs or derrière that they always
consider more attractive. It's something you already have, and when you
crank it up to mega-watt brilliance, you'll maximize your sex appeal.
(See pages 33-34)
No. 1 problem that couples face.
This problem is like a cancer that permeates all other areas of your life
-- and I show you 3 ways to overcome it. (See page
Why Men Don’t Listen
– The "Reflective Listening" technique you can do that will make a man
eagerly listen to what you’re saying as if it were pure gold.
(See pages 103)
The 4 words that all
women should memorize in order to have successful relationships with men.
These words point to a fundamental difference between men and women that
you must never forget. (See page 14)
The "Truth List" Exercise
- A magical technique for uncovering the special qualities that men
(and people in general) find attractive in you. This will enable you to
allow those qualities to surface -- thereby boosting your confidence along
the way. Men find confidence absolutely sexy!
(See pages 61-62)
How not to let your past
hurts sabotage your chance of having successful relationships.
(See page 52)
"I never could put my finger on what it is
about some women that I just couldn't resist until I read""The
Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave".
As I read Bob's words I constantly caught myself nodding in
agreement. I instinctively knew what it was about certain women that
created such strong feelings in me, but until I read this book I would
have been at a loss to explain it. Read "The Woman Men Adore...and
Never Want to Leave". Your man will love you for it."
-- Gary Caine, The Singles Cafe
So How Much is All This Worth to You?
If you're a single woman, what is the
value of becoming totally irresistible to men, attracting the man of
your dreams, making him fall in love with you, marry you and give you
everything your heart desires?
If you're a married woman, how would your life improve when you reignite
the spark in your marriage, make your husband fall in love with you all
over again, enjoy deeper intimacy with him, and have an enduring marriage?
What is the value of not wasting any more time trying to figure men
out, and read them like a book instead -- or having the ability to
easily diffuse quarrels, arguments, and other relationship troubles
as they occur, and be able to effortlessly influence your man to your way of
What price can you put on learning to become a woman that men adore ... and
never want to leave?
That's less than the cost
of a daily cup of coffee from Starbucks for a month!
Yes, I know the price is ridiculously
low, especially when you consider that
relationship counseling rates vary from $45 to $200 per session! I
charge $150 per session. At just one session a week for 3 months, that
amounts to $3,000.
But remember that the
reason I created my e-book is to help more than just clients who are
able to consult with me face-to-face in my home state of Georgia -- and also
to help those who can't afford the high cost of relationship counseling.
I will be raising the price
of the e-book soon, though. I'm offering the low introductory price of
$47 just to help make it affordable to as many people as possible.
My No-Risk, Iron-Clad, "You'd Better Love It" 100%
I am so confident that
you'll be absolutely thrilled with "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want
to Leave," that I couldn't pry it out of your hands if I tried.
But don't take my word for it.
Get your hands on my e-book today
and put it to the test for 8 weeks.
Read every page and
try out the tips, tactics and strategies on
for size and if
it's not worth at least 10 times more than you what you paid for -- or if it
hasn't revolutionized your love life -- or if you're not 100% satisfied
within 8 weeks, I'll refund your entire purchase price. NO QUESTIONS
The only thing that I ask is that you give
it a fair try. Don't just skim over The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leavewithout implementing some or all of the secrets contained in it. You owe it
to yourself to see how powerful these insights are, when applied.
This is the Last Relationship
Book You'll Ever Read
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to
Leave is the
"first and last of its kind” relationship book that will show you how to
completely understand men once and for all – and use that understanding to
create the relationship of your dreams -- not in months or years, but
immediately. That is why this is the last book on man-woman
relationships that you’ll ever need to read.
You’ll get everything you need right in this book to accomplish your
relationship goals and completely change your life.
You've probably heard of bestselling books like "Men are from Mars, Women
are From Venus" and "He's Just Not That Into You." Unlike those
books and other relationship books on the market that point to the glaring
differences between men and women ("Tell me something I didn't know!")
The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave
goes a step further and teaches you how to use those differences to your
When you master the principles I teach in
Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave,
men won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel
powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of
it. Everybody wins!
Whether you want to “get out of a
relationship rut,” attract the relationship you want into your life, or find
fulfillment in your current relationship, I hope that for your sake, you'll
take the path to relationship success that hundreds of my clients have
been asked thousands of times how I got to be so romantic. There were
some really bad marriages in my immediate family and when I met Athena
I knew that I would never want to hurt her in any way. I just adored
her and would do anything for her even if it meant learning to be
romantic. Are you the type of woman that men just adore and never want
to leave? Find out what makes a woman adorable in The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave."
-- Michael Webb, Oprah Expert, Founder of www.theromantic.com and author
secrets of Blissful Relationships"
Better Way to Date"
"Dear Bob: Thank you for the opportunity to review your book,The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave.
As a fellow therapist and also a woman, your book provides some
interesting insights that I think will be particularly helpful to any
woman wanting to gain a better understanding of what men want. I
enjoyed reading your book and I am confident that others will too. The
best to you!" --
Dr. Reena Sommer, Relationship Consultant, New York Times
contributor & author of
"The Anatomy of An Affair"